"I just don't know what to do.." a friend of mine lamented to me the other day.
After being in this world a few years I know that the decision making process is a very personal decision making process for all of us. (ha)
Some of us make lists and decide based on pros and cons. Others of us listen to friends and family and decide based on whomever is perceived as the wisest. Others of us just jump in without thinking. Some of us don't make decisions and we let whatever happens become the decision .
In retrospect I could ask myself , Was this the best decision I could have made considering all factors.
My answer, some yes, some no.
I think you have to go with your heart and your gut and whatever happens is easier to live with.
Sometimes we will cross that road for no reason at all. We get run over in the process for our stupidity but perhaps that is the price we pay for taking risks and jumping instead of peering over the edge of that abyss we call life.
