As a social worker in grad school I studied many child development theories.
Watching the "Tea Parties", the "protests" over health care and the angry white men interviewed on television, with red faces, shouting, indignant, one theory sticks in my mind.
Expect a negative behavior to increase before it is extinguished when you set boundaries with a young child.
A child exhibits a behavior you want to stop. You say no and remove the child from the behavior. The child will inevitably return to do it again. Often times it will become a power struggle.
The answer is to divert the child. The child may return to the spot and the behavior at a later date and the same process is repeated. Eventually the behavior s diminished and eradicated.
The angry white men in congress are in the last throes of their petulant, spoiled little boy behaviors.
The behaviors are increasing and exacerbating.
For example;
"You have some splainin to do"-totally unacceptable and racist behavior on the part of an educated, grown man. A grown up should have removed him from the situation-
The "Tea Parties"-look around. Angry white men with signs during the worst economic times in our lives-protesting taxes which have not been raised.
The temper tantrum is someone else has the ball and they don't like it. Interrupt the game by calling names and diverting attention.
The insanity of it all has me shaking my head in wonder.. The oldest primitive responses in behavioral science are played out for all to see and no one sees them.
President Obama's birth certificate elicits crazy behavior. For those who want to believe no amount of proof will satisfy them. Who carries this message forward? Who encourages this behavior? The same angry old white men who, behind the scenes, tap into that two year old boy behavior-no one can make me change-I won't do it-I won't do it!"
Ironically, this is the legacy of the Baby Boomer generation.
Look around you. Health Care Corporations, Insurance companies, oil and energy companies, utilities, Wall Street, banks, mortgage companies-all owned or run by angry white men in their sixties.
Who are the talking heads for the angry white man being told no? Rush Limbaugh, Lou Dobbs, Bill O'Reilly, Glen Beck, -check out their ages..
News media? Owned and run by many of the Baby Boomer generation.
Government? Look at those having the temper tantrums?
Makes one wonder if the Baby Boomers sincerity of the sixties-for equal rights, desegregation, equal pay and free speech weren't really just throwing big temper tantrums because they could.
Now the Generation of Baby Boomer males fight the dirty fight.
Why?
Because they think they can get away with it, once again.